![]() ![]() ![]() (Two without Ethan, because at the end of it all I was only diagnosed with anxiety and deemed “safe” to be around my kids again,) but 4 months without Colton and Victoria because their dad refused to let me see them for an additional two months past the cps case closing. I went FOUR months without contact with Colton and Victoria. I chalked it up to the trauma from being ripped away from her mom and brother, but I would find out much later it was a way worse cause than that. This is also the time when Victoria’s bed wetting began. After returning to my care, it took Colton a long time before he would hold my hand or show any kind of affection towards me again due to months of psychological abuse. Once I finally left him, he and his family made false allegations with cps regarding my mental health, took my 4 and 7 year old children and sent my 10 yr old to Foster care because he wasn’t blood. All of this to say, up until my children were WRONGFULLY removed from me, I was their only safe, loving and nurturing parent and continue to be until this day. When he did come home, it was nothing but angry, violent outbursts and severe physical abuse along with me finding him passed from his opioid addiction. Up until then, I had been their only parent, as their father would disappear for long periods of time, and Holidays without him were the norm. Those months, without my babies, were hands down the darkest days of my life to date. She then offered to pay my rent and bills for a month on behalf of their office because they felt so bad about seeing my family destroyed like that. to cps for removing children from their safe place and giving them to a violent man who couldn’t stay clean off of drugs AND for separating them from their big brother and placing Ethan in foster care) After it was all over with and my evaluation proved that I was not in fact mentally incapable of caring for my children, a lead supervisor came to my home and very humbly apologized for what happened to me and my kids, stating none of it made any sense to anyone in their office and that I should know the case worker in charge of my kids’ case had been discharged because of it. The CPS ordered psych eval resulted in finding that I suffered from anxiety and required no further compliance on my part. They have done everything in their power to smear my name, including making calls to cps claiming that I was mental, resulting in the removal of my children and placed in his care minus Ethan because he was not blood. His family has bottomless pockets and only care about power, control and their public image. ![]() Every interaction with him since has been a living nightmare. My ex husband, of course, has his own narrative, but here is my story: After 7 years of extreme abuse from my now ex husband, (one example was an evening where I scooped up my children, ran and hid terrified in the master bathroom where we locked ourselves in just as he fired his gun, bullets narrowly missing my head and tearing through 4 walls before finally embedding in the siding of the house) After 7 years of extreme abuse, I took my children ages 4, 7 and 10 and hid in a safe house with Marion County Mid-Valley women’s crisis center, and filed a restraining order. ![]()
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